Teenage angst....

[Lord Kangana]

My money's still on the axe wielding rampage.

Keep us informed btw.

[Gooner Girl]

He's not a simpleton, hes a fairly normal lad from the little i know of him.

It wasn't just my wisdom he wanted...

indeed not, you minx!

Read all of what i have put before you quote just part of it! I also said it isn't what you all think of the poor lad, its my help talking to her he's after!

Or so you think. When you (foolishly but well-meaningly) intervene and she laughs in your face, to whom will he turn for consolation. The person who messed up his chances and feels a little guilty? As I said, I doubt he is a simpleton but withhold judgment on some others.

I shall ignore the last part of your post! Humph!

You don't think i would be helping if i talk to her and find out whats going on?

[thebish]

He's not a simpleton, hes a fairly normal lad from the little i know of him.

It wasn't just my wisdom he wanted...

indeed not, you minx!

Read all of what i have put before you quote just part of it! I also said it isn't what you all think of the poor lad, its my help talking to her he's after!

Or so you think. When you (foolishly but well-meaningly) intervene and she laughs in your face, to whom will he turn for consolation. The person who messed up his chances and feels a little guilty? As I said, I doubt he is a simpleton but withhold judgment on some others.

I shall ignore the last part of your post! Humph!

You don't think i would be helping if i talk to her and find out whats going on?

not unless you're really up for this threesome plan...

[Gooner Girl]

He's not a simpleton, hes a fairly normal lad from the little i know of him.

It wasn't just my wisdom he wanted...

indeed not, you minx!

Read all of what i have put before you quote just part of it! I also said it isn't what you all think of the poor lad, its a threesome he's after!

ahhh... makes sense...

Behave Philip!

[Montreal Wanderer]

I shall ignore the last part of your post! Humph!

You don't think i would be helping if i talk to her and find out whats going on?

Personally, no I don't. I think you would be interfering and, assuming you liked these two young people, lose one or both as friends. I would have thought the days of playing goosebery were past in 21st century England.

[Gooner Girl]

He asked me to try and find out what she thought of him. Was hard to say no though it makes me feel like i'm back in the playground aged about 12. Wouldn't say either of them are close friends but i take your point!

[Montreal Wanderer]

He asked me to try and find out what she thought of him. Was hard to say no though it makes me feel like i'm back in the playground aged about 12. Wouldn't say either of them are close friends but i take your point!

Explain to him that no girl would respect a man who asks someone to curry favour, discovers confidences and reports them back.

The answer is really quite simple. Tell him to ask her out. If she says 'yes', he can go and enjoy himself (at least for a brief while until her parent, who may be less forgiving, finds out or she discovers his vacillating nature). If however she says, as has happened to me, that she would rather be raped by sixty syphilitic apes than go out with him, he should maintain his dignity, say politely that he hopes she gets her wish and retire. Then is the time to set ones sights on other fish (hopefully not you) of which there are many.

[HMX]

I'd kick him in the deep end - if he likes her, tell him to ask her out as Monty said. If she doesn't reciprocate, he has to get over it.

[bobo the clown]

I shall ignore the last part of your post! Humph!

You don't think i would be helping if i talk to her and find out whats going on?

Personally, no I don't. I think you would be interfering and, assuming you liked these two young people, lose one or both as friends. I would have thought the days of playing goosebery were past in 21st century England.

... ah, but pimping is still all the rage.

ffs Gooner. You have always seemed a bright lady .... but you have agreed to help a 20yr old largely inadequate/emotionally immature 20yr old lad try to connect with a 15yr old girl. What is it you aren't seeing here ?

It's safe enough in that she will not want anything to do with him by all else you've said ...but in case that's not how it works and she says "hey, yeah !" then I suggest you get one of those re-inforced doors that drug dealers fit, as her dad will be after your blood.

If you give him ANY advice it should be to look a little nearer his own age ... but really you should just walk away & not get any further involved.

[Gooner Girl]

He asked me to try and find out what she thought of him. Was hard to say no though it makes me feel like i'm back in the playground aged about 12. Wouldn't say either of them are close friends but i take your point!

Explain to him that no girl would respect a man who asks someone to curry favour, discovers confidences and reports them back.

The answer is really quite simple. Tell him to ask her out. If she says 'yes', he can go and enjoy himself (at least for a brief while until her parent, who may be less forgiving, finds out or she discovers his vacillating nature). If however she says, as has happened to me, that she would rather be raped by sixty syphilitic apes than go out with him, he should maintain his dignity, say politely that he hopes she gets her wish and retire. Then is the time to set ones sights on other fish (hopefully not you) of which there are many.

He did ask her out and she said yes apparently but then blocked him on facebook for something before they could arrange a date (i'm not sure what,am not entirely sure he gave me the full story) I did tell him (gently) that if she'd blocked him on fb it was a fairly big hint she didn't want to speak to him (given the only other times he sees her is when she comes to pick up horse feed from the pet store) Perhaps i should have been more clear he had no hope and not agreed to talk to her but he kinda caught me on the hop before i really had time to think about it.

[Gooner Girl]

I shall ignore the last part of your post! Humph!

You don't think i would be helping if i talk to her and find out whats going on?

Personally, no I don't. I think you would be interfering and, assuming you liked these two young people, lose one or both as friends. I would have thought the days of playing goosebery were past in 21st century England.

... ah, but pimping is still all the rage.

ffs Gooner. You have always seemed a bright lady .... but you have agreed to help a 20yr old largely inadequate/emotionally immature 20yr old lad try to connect with a 15yr old girl. What is it you aren't seeing here ?

It's safe enough in that she will not want anything to do with him by all else you've said ...but in case that's not how it works and she says "hey, yeah !" then I suggest you get one of those re-inforced doors that drug dealers fit, as her dad will be after your blood.

If you give him ANY advice it should be to look a little nearer his own age ... but really you should just walk away & not get any further involved.

Am sure you're right, i just felt a bit sorry for him...

[Montreal Wanderer]

Well, I'm glad we settled that. Chalk one up to the TW Agony Aunt's column.

[boltonboris]

He asked me to try and find out what she thought of him. Was hard to say no though it makes me feel like i'm back in the playground aged about 12. Wouldn't say either of them are close friends but i take your point!

Explain to him that no girl would respect a man who asks someone to curry favour, discovers confidences and reports them back.

The answer is really quite simple. Tell him to ask her out. If she says 'yes', he can go and enjoy himself (at least for a brief while until her parent, who may be less forgiving, finds out or she discovers his vacillating nature). If however she says, as has happened to me, that she would rather be raped by sixty syphilitic apes than go out with him, he should maintain his dignity, say politely that he hopes she gets her wish and retire. Then is the time to set ones sights on other fish (hopefully not you) of which there are many.

He did ask her out and she said yes apparently but then blocked him on facebook for something before they could arrange a date (i'm not sure what,am not entirely sure he gave me the full story) I did tell him (gently) that if she'd blocked him on fb it was a fairly big hint she didn't want to speak to him (given the only other times he sees her is when she comes to pick up horse feed from the pet store) Perhaps i should have been more clear he had no hope and not agreed to talk to her but he kinda caught me on the hop before i really had time to think about it.

Opph.. That sounds like a right kick in his massive, underused bollocks that does!

[thebish]

Well, I'm glad we settled that. Chalk one up to the TW Agony Aunt's column.

yeah - say no to the threesome - you'll regret it in the morning...

[seanworth]

Tell him to sneak on the school grounds during recess or playtime whatever you call it and confront her. Or maybe he can get some tips from Gary Glitter.

Seriously though, the girl is 15 years old and he's 20. It sounds like he has issues, so how can you even concider condoning this. Most likely the girl is a normal 15 yr old girl, so why try to potentially screw her up by promoting a relationship with a 20 yr old that isn't entirely normal. What happens if it f#cks up. What happens if he gets his feelings mixed up and rapes her, won't you be sharing some legal responsibility by introducing an adult to a minor. Isn't being a 15 yr old girl tough enough in this day and age.

[CrazyHorse]

Well, I'm glad we settled that. Chalk one up to the TW Agony Aunt's column.

yeah - say no to the threesome - you'll regret it in the morning...

Quite right.
I've done nothing but regret that night I spent with those two top heavy page 3 stunners....

[seanworth]

Well, I'm glad we settled that. Chalk one up to the TW Agony Aunt's column.

yeah - say no to the threesome - you'll regret it in the morning...

Quite right.
I've done nothing but regret that night I spent with those two top heavy page 3 stunners....

Reports have it they regret it also.

[thebish]

Well, I'm glad we settled that. Chalk one up to the TW Agony Aunt's column.

yeah - say no to the threesome - you'll regret it in the morning...

Quite right.
I've done nothing but regret that night I spent with those two top heavy page 3 stunners....

it may take a while Crazy - but the cream does eventually take away the itching...

[CrazyHorse]

I think they just wanted to find out where the nickname horse came from.

[Gooner Girl]

Well, I'm glad we settled that. Chalk one up to the TW Agony Aunt's column.

yeah - say no to the threesome - you'll regret it in the morning...

You speking from experience here Bish?! Isn't it every mans ultimate fantasy?!