Teenage angst....

[Bruce Rioja]

It's a good thing for you that the members of this site are too mature to laugh, tut a bit, shake their heads slowly and then say " .... told you so."

11 pages ago!

[Worthy4England]

Duh - just take the first pet food delivery in the nuddy.

He'll probably spend the next 6 months in his bedroom talking to a furry glove.

[bobo the clown]

What if he turns up where you're on holiday, btw ?

[Gooner Girl]

What if he turns up where you're on holiday, btw ?

I will admit to feeling a little unnerved by him, but i'm pretty sure he's not that desperate to talk about his love life problems that he would follow me on holiday!

[thebish]

What if he turns up where you're on holiday, btw ?

I will admit to feeling a little unnerved by him, but i'm pretty sure he's not that desperate to talk about his love life problems that he would follow me on holiday!

a few pages ago - despite being the opposite told by just about everyone on here right from page 1 - you were sure that he had no interest in you at all.....

[Wandering Willy]

What if he turns up where you're on holiday, btw ?

Aye - he might be watching through binoculars

Seriously, you need to deal with this on more than the facebook level.

Have a serious word with him.

[Gooner Girl]

What if he turns up where you're on holiday, btw ?

Aye - he might be watching through binoculars

Seriously, you need to deal with this on more than the facebook level.

Have a serious word with him.

I.e - "Stop talking to me about your love life, i'm not interested"?

sounds so harsh but you're probably right. Isn't anything i can do to help him anyway. He's got an older sister, will suggest he talks to her instead.

[Wandering Willy]

What if he turns up where you're on holiday, btw ?

Aye - he might be watching through binoculars

Seriously, you need to deal with this on more than the facebook level.

Have a serious word with him.

I.e - "Stop talking to me about your love life, i'm not interested"?

sounds so harsh but you're probably right. Isn't anything i can do to help him anyway. He's got an older sister, will suggest he talks to her instead.

If you know him quite well then that may work. If not, I would suggest being very harsh. Not pleasant I know but he's brought it on himself if he's bothering you so much.

Perhaps an alternative if you are uncomfortable with being harsh to him is to talk to the sister directly. It's difficult to make suggestions when you don't know the personalties involved but you need to do something if you are unhappy.

[Gooner Girl]

What if he turns up where you're on holiday, btw ?

I will admit to feeling a little unnerved by him, but i'm pretty sure he's not that desperate to talk about his love life problems that he would follow me on holiday!

a few pages ago - despite being the opposite told by just about everyone on here right from page 1 - you were sure that he had no interest in you at all.....

I'm still not convinced - it just does seem a little weird to tell his dad he wants to do my deliveries etc thats all.

[Gooner Girl]

What if he turns up where you're on holiday, btw ?

Aye - he might be watching through binoculars

Seriously, you need to deal with this on more than the facebook level.

Have a serious word with him.

I.e - "Stop talking to me about your love life, i'm not interested"?

sounds so harsh but you're probably right. Isn't anything i can do to help him anyway. He's got an older sister, will suggest he talks to her instead.

If you know him quite well then that may work. If not, I would suggest being very harsh. Not pleasant I know but he's brought it on himself if he's bothering you so much.

Perhaps an alternative if you are uncomfortable with being harsh to him is to talk to the sister directly. It's difficult to make suggestions when you don't know the personalties involved but you need to do something if you are unhappy.

Don't really know his sister... not got to a stage where he's totally freaking me out yet, just all seems a bit odd thats all.

[Worthy4England]

What if he turns up where you're on holiday, btw ?

I will admit to feeling a little unnerved by him, but i'm pretty sure he's not that desperate to talk about his love life problems that he would follow me on holiday!

a few pages ago - despite being the opposite told by just about everyone on here right from page 1 - you were sure that he had no interest in you at all.....

I'm still not convinced - it just does seem a little weird to tell his dad he wants to do my deliveries etc thats all.

It seems very weird.

I'm fairly sure when I was a teenager, we invariably used to chug up to the local park (or whatever) near the person we were after. The fact that he seems to be collaring you would make me uncomfortable too - I would have thought his attention would be elsewhere.

[Montreal Wanderer]

By the time he is totally freaking you out, it may be too late. You have contributed to the problem by, ignoring what was obvious to most, leading him on a little through being nice and listening to him. End it now. I'd say much more but, like Bobo, I'm too mature...

[thebish]

I'm fairly sure when I was a teenager, we invariably used to chug up to the local park (or whatever) near the person we were after. The fact that he seems to be collaring you would make me uncomfortable too - I would have thought his attention would be elsewhere.

maybe he fancies Mr GG and GG is his way in....

[Wandering Willy]

Don't really know his sister... not got to a stage where he's totally freaking me out yet, just all seems a bit odd thats all.

As Monty points out - this is not a stage you should be waiting for.

[bobo the clown]

Being serious for a moment (sorry) ... I appreciate that turning round to him & saying "hey, I know you've taken a shine to me, but ...." will lead to "no I've not ...." and embarrasment all the way.

But you need to just cut him out of your life ... be a bit unpleasant if you must. Tell him whatever lies you need, just cut him adrift.

[Gooner Girl]

What if he turns up where you're on holiday, btw ?

I will admit to feeling a little unnerved by him, but i'm pretty sure he's not that desperate to talk about his love life problems that he would follow me on holiday!

a few pages ago - despite being the opposite told by just about everyone on here right from page 1 - you were sure that he had no interest in you at all.....

I'm still not convinced - it just does seem a little weird to tell his dad he wants to do my deliveries etc thats all.

It seems very weird.

I'm fairly sure when I was a teenager, we invariably used to chug up to the local park (or whatever) near the person we were after. The fact that he seems to be collaring you would make me uncomfortable too - I would have thought his attention would be elsewhere.

Ahhh, happy days. Flirting with the boys as a teenager in the local park... When you hit your 30th birthday the next year you go back to being 29 again don't you? Which means i reckon i'll be teenage again around 2021

Anyway, i digress, glad its not just me that thinks it a bit odd...

[Gooner Girl]

By the time he is totally freaking you out, it may be too late. You have contributed to the problem by, ignoring what was obvious to most, leading him on a little through being nice and listening to him. End it now. I'd say much more but, like Bobo, I'm too mature...

Good to see a few of you are at least...

[Gooner Girl]

Being serious for a moment (sorry) ... I appreciate that turning round to him & saying "hey, I know you've taken a shine to me, but ...." will lead to "no I've not ...." and embarrasment all the way.

But you need to just cut him out of your life ... be a bit unpleasant if you must. Tell him whatever lies you need, just cut him adrift.

Indeed, i can't say that cos he's never said he has, its just you lot assuming. Could be well embarassing. So what DO i say to him and how do i say it nicely?

[seanworth]

Screw it, the kid seems to definitely have problems, and is very immature. Talk to his father.

[Worthy4England]

Far too many niceties going on here.

Tell him to fook right off of Mr GG will be round in Crazy's transit van with some gangstas.